Experiences, ordinary and extraordinary

IMG_20220727_181406_988Quietly, quietly, the book slips into the world, into being, and there it is. Here it is. It’s hard to know what to do after that, as the writer. The author of that world. (It sounds so powerful — to author a world — but it’s actually mostly surrender to the forces that rise and compel a person to place words on the page; to go looking for shape and structure in a mess of accidental imagery.)

Just before the book came out, I did an interview with another writer. It’s always terrific to be interviewed by another writer, who is as curious about process as I am. Have a listen if you have time.

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I’m also told that the audiobook is available everywhere you get those, if that’s your preferred mode of absorbing text. I voiced the audiobook version, and I loved reading for it, just like I loved being at the front of the room on Tuesday evening, in conversation with my dear friend Tasneem Jamal, talking about Francie and especially about the writing process. I think we managed to avoid any spoilers, and didn’t get lost in the weeds (or the labyrinth, as it were).

I’d like to share how I felt during the book launch: Alive. Comfortable. Myself, but as if my self were a source of light and lightness. Ease. Enjoyment. Delight. It was as if I were completely in tune with all the positive energy in the room. That good, deep, loving energy was almost visible to me, it felt so present. Time slowed. I could give and receive, relax, take all the time needed, I was aware of my feet on the ground, and my breath.

Most of all, I felt gratitude. Thankfulness. The warmth radiating from the open, generous faces of everyone who had taken time out of their day to come, in person, to share this moment with me. What a gift!

I’m beginning to understand that these experiences — like the X Page performance on Sunday, and the book launch — they don’t need to be anything else. They don’t need to build to something else, or become something else. They are whole, and wholly fulfilling in and of themselves. I love an experience. I love creating opportunities for flow. And it doesn’t have to be a heightened moment, either. I also love when an ordinary moment, seemingly every day and banal (like waiting in line for an appointment or stuck in the car in traffic), transforms in some way into an experience, a moment of flow.

It’s a way of being, of entering into relationship with the world, of allowing my joy to fly free, to freely express delight in being alive, without fear.

As I orient myself, today, I hope to find new and continuing ways to conjure and appreciate experiences, both ordinary and extraordinary, that make possible profound connection with others. I want to be open, always, to that swirl and whirl of delight in what is, that grounds us in what’s happening with joy, trust, light, and lightness.

That is my measure for success, for myself, now and always.

xo, Carrie

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  1. Juliet

    Hello from Paris. I am very happy for you and the launch of your new book. I went onto the Amazon website to take a look and read the opening pages; but when I clicked on the “Look Inside” feature, it doesn’t open. Just wanted to let you know.

    I’d like to add that a book launch can be an exhausting experience for authors who do not have the support/backing of a publicity machine. Indie authors have two careers: firstly, to write the book and, secondly, to market, strategize, publicize and actively promote the heck out of it. My recently published memoir, An Accidental Parisian, is currently going through that process.

    • Carrie Snyder

      thank you for your perspective, Juliet. I appreciate it.

  2. Trilby

    Congratulations, Carrie! I can’t wait to read Francie. As always, really appreciate your honesty about the ups and downs – your anxieties around the launch are so recognizable. I’m really glad to hear that you enjoyed it, as well you should!

    • Carrie Snyder

      thank you so much, Trilby. the downs are almost easier to talk about, in some ways. the ups feel effervescent, impossible to capture, but worth attempting to grasp, I think.


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